Sit On My Face, Or Femdom. Three Stories From The Practice Of A Sexologist - Sex

2023 Author: Oswald Adamson | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-21 20:18

The following trend is observed in modern society. Gender roles and gender stereotypes are shifting, against the background of which women are becoming more active. In sexual behavior, this leads to their initiative, bold introduction of diversity and domination. Men have a positive attitude towards an active woman, perceiving her as sexually liberated. Female domination, its forms take on a variety of sexual scenarios, ranging from the old classic pose of "cowgirl" with the fixation of a man's hands, to a specific BDSM ritual

It is good when a sexually compatible couple and the range of sexual acceptability of partners is approximately the same. However, it happens that some people come into conflict with their desires or suppress them. Good or bad, let's figure it out. (All the names in the stories are fictitious and the coincidences are random.)

Story 1

Kolya, a builder, works with his hands, he is a specific guy and has a negative attitude towards his desires. He gets turned on when a woman brings her unwashed feet close to his face and kicks him somewhat dismissively. He, a real man, cannot accept his masochistic desires. To correct his libido, he turns to an appointment.

Story 2

Inna accidentally finds in her correspondence that her husband uses the services of prostitutes who work in pairs. They are engaged in group sex, with one of the girls he conducts a vaginal act, and the other has him anally with a strapon. Inna is shocked, she asks the question "Isn't my husband gay?"

Story 3

Vasily passionately lusts for his ex-wife, with whom he lives separately. She is 20 years older than him and has entered the retirement age. Divorce doesn't stop them from having fun. The wife also has anal sex with Vasily using a strapon. Vasily is incredibly aroused by sex with her, but a disturbing thought does not give him rest. How can he stop being emotionally dependent on his wife and leave only sex in their relationship?

Sexologist's comments

In the first story, Nikolai does not accept his sexual nature, he intends to remake his attraction. And this is his right. Libido correction is a laborious process, but possible. Fixed on a fetish of female feet, he pays great attention to them in sex. Ever since the days of Freud, feet and shoes have been understood in fantasy as sexual symbolism. So, among fetish lovers, shoes - means a woman's vagina. Men can fantasize about sniffing a woman's shoe, licking her insides and ending up on it as a result.

In the second story, we can allay Inna's worries. Her husband is not gay, he is driven by a craving for contact with a sadistic mother. Realizing his desire with a prostitute, he plunges into regression, again and again experiencing moments of intimacy and merging with his mother, whose image he projects onto his partner with a strapon.

The third story can be confusing, because Vasily's wish is not feasible. As long as he wants to live a similar act with his ex-wife, he is doomed to be emotionally dependent on her. And it is the emotional dependence in their connection that is primary for him. Sex itself serves only as a platform for recreating the primary scene with the parent object.

Difficult, confusing situations for the characters in the stories sound a dissonance in their lives. Embodied in reality, they do not bring the joy that was intended. Control only fuels desire. A natural question arises - what to do? How to dispose of them? Only they can solve this. It is important for you and me to understand that all three stories describe immature sexual behavior.