Questionnaire For The Detection Of Narcissistic Deficiency. How Big A Daffodil Are You? - Self-development

Questionnaire for the detection of narcissistic deficiency. Just answer “yes” or “no,” without focusing on thinking for a long time. And believe me, even if you answer yes to most of the questions on this test, that doesn't mean you are a daffodil narcissist. It's just that the narcissistic area of your personality is quite vulnerable due to the circumstances of your life.

Narcissistic Deficiency Questionnaire

Self-Esteem Statements

1. My self-esteem is very dependent on what is happening in my life now.
2. Trouble and setbacks plunge me into a sense of my own inferiority for a long time.
3. I rarely feel like a worthy and respected person.
4. I doubt all the time if there is anything in me that is valuable and meaningful to the people in my environment.
5. I often feel inappropriate in contact with people.
6. I constantly fall short of the ideal that I set for myself.
7. I cannot find anything in myself that would make me unique among other people.
8. I have no merit that I could be proud of.
9. I don't know what my strengths are.
10. I don't know why I could be loved, appreciated or respected.
11. I get desperate when I think that I am an ordinary person, one of many.
12. I often compare myself to other people. And not in their favor.
13. Other people's successes unsettle me. Against their background, I quickly fall into a feeling of dull insignificance.
14. If I understand that I am worse than other people in something, then this plunges me into a feeling of insignificance.
15. I constantly criticize myself and devalue what I did and what I achieved.
16. I think that if people discern who I really am, they will be forever disappointed with me.
17. In the views of people on me, I more often see criticism and evaluativeness than benevolence and interest in me.
18. Because of my shortcomings and my mistakes in life, I am much worse than the people around me.
19. My achievements and successes in no way convince me that I have a sufficient level of competence and professionalism.
20. I often feel like an impostor and am afraid that it will become obvious to others.
21. Beliefs related to relationships with people
22. I often find myself thinking that I am much better off without people, because then I can avoid shame.
23. When I am surrounded by people, I often feel that something is wrong with me.
24. I believe that there are normal people around me, but I am definitely not one of them.
25. I don't like competition. There is a high risk of being worse than someone in her.
26. I can't imagine anyone condescending to my shortcomings. It would be better for me not to show them at all.
27. If I admit that I have many virtues, then I will have to correspond all the time and be in tension so as not to disappoint others.
28. More than anything, I am afraid of dependence on other people.
29. Requests humiliate me. It would be nice if people themselves, of their own accord, did for me what I need, because I, in turn, do the maximum for them.
30. I cannot understand why a relationship in which we have no mutual benefit from each other.
31. My goal is not to need other people and to cope with everything myself.

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Mental attitudes

1. I am often seized with anxiety that I cannot relax and I must move forward, otherwise I will remain “nobody”.
2. I have to constantly prove to myself that I can do a lot in order to feel that everything is in order with me.
3. I am not satisfied with achievements and successes. As soon as I climbed the next step, I must move on quickly.
4. I am obviously worse at coping with my life than the people around me.
5. The criteria for success in life are beauty, strength, wealth and power.
6. I believe that smart people do not make mistakes in life.
7. I think that if you try hard enough, you can manage events in your life.
8. I cannot accept that some events have happened in my life. I would like for myself a different life story.
9. I think that addiction humiliates a person.
10. Attachment makes people dependent on each other, which is dangerous.
11. Pleasure is irrelevant if not beneficial.
12. You should not start a new business if you are not one hundred percent sure of the result.
13. If I got down to business, I will demand of myself to do it perfectly, even if it drains me.

Perhaps, having answered the questions, you were at a loss: "But I lacked narcissism in my life!" And you are absolutely right. It sounds like you really lack a healthy narcissism that provides a solid foundation for self-esteem, self-esteem, and confidence in your relationships with people.

Chapter "Questionnaire for the detection of narcissistic deficiency" from the book "Fragile people. The secret door to the world of narcissists. " Julia Pirumova. - Moscow: Publishing house "Bombora", 2020.