Parting Labyrinth. "He Didn't Get Divorced, But I Got Pregnant " - Relations

I met Gleb during the negotiations, and he immediately began to look for meetings with me, said that there are “solid ruins” in his family, he and his wife are drawing up a divorce. But after a while, Gleb's relationship with his wife improved, and he suggested that I no longer meet. Suddenly, I found out that I was pregnant, and told my beloved about it. Gleb was delighted, left the family, we rented an apartment. Everything was fine, but for some reason my pregnancy stopped developing and I could not keep the baby. Soon after that, Gleb returned to the family, saying that he yearned for his wife and son. I suffered a lot, could not come to my senses, looked for meetings with him and hoped for sympathy. We started talking again, making plans, and soon Gleb left the family again. At first I was sure that Gleb had left in order to be with me, but he was in no hurry, he settled alone in his brother's apartment. And after a month of separate life, he began to feel very sad, complaining of heart pain, insomnia and depression. I told him that we should try to live together, but he only refused. Suddenly he stopped calling and texting. As for me, I love him very much. It seems to me a farce that in this story I seem to have stepped on the same rake for the second time. But when I think that he will part with me, he throws me into the icy cold, as if thinking about death. What should I do?that in this story I seemed to have stepped on the same rake for the second time. But when I think that he will part with me, he throws me into the icy cold, as if thinking about death. What should I do?that in this story I seemed to have stepped on the same rake for the second time. But when I think that he will part with me, he throws me into the icy cold, as if thinking about death. What should I do?

Natalia, 37 years old

You read the author's letter and wonder - what is it? A dramatic story that just needs to grab attention and impress? Or a cry of heartache seeking sympathy? Or a confession made in the hope of forgiveness? Or maybe this is a romantic story designed to revive extinct feelings, or a demonstration of the depth of relationships and the overcoming power of love? I suggest the reader to pause reading as a kind of test and choose one of the listed options. So how does this story make you, the reader, feel?

OPTION 1

Interest, delight or sympathetic approval, sympathy.

OPTION 2

Irritation, condemnation, contempt, or even disgust and disgust.

OPTION 3

Compassion, pity, surprise, bewilderment, or just indifference.

Have you answered? Now, the "test" results.

OPTION ONE

The more you are inclined to delight and admiration, or just sympathetic approval of the characters in this story, the more likely you are to find yourself in a similar situation, having experienced all its "grief and charm." Perhaps you have already recognized yourself in the image of Gleb or his mistress and therefore reacted with sincere sympathy, in which case you sympathize with yourself. Most likely, your whole life will consist of a successive series of such situations, and you will live it with the confidence that an existence not filled with passion is empty, and under the slogan that you need to fight for love.

OPTION TWO

You with conviction consider the characters in the story to be spiritless and immoral sinners, destroying family foundations and paid for it with mental anguish. Here we can say that you most likely have never been in such a relationship, but you are also very likely to experience them, although the result for you will be much more tragic than in the first group, because your passionate needs are extremely strong, and not recognizing them in yourself, displacing them into the subconscious, you run the risk of one day meeting them in the most demonic guise. If those who chose the first option, such a story will be experienced as a tense melodrama, then for you it will be an unforeseen and destructive passion, a real "fatal love" or "a temptation beyond your powers."

OPTION THREE

You sympathize with the heroes, understanding how limited their spiritual and personal freedom is, how much cold, indifference and alienation they experienced in childhood, having since then preserved an insatiable need for warmth, intimacy and love. Or you just feel sorry for them, as it is a pity for an unintelligent child who trusted in an adult teenager and deceived by him, or as a pity for a moth flying into a bright light and singing its wings. Well, then you are a mature, responsible person, capable of deep, sincere and lasting relationships that will only enrich you creatively, sensually and spiritually. And your love will not lead to the fact that you will have to "grieve greatly, complain of heart pains, insomnia and depression", and even more so you will never be bothered by "thoughts of parting", from which you would "be thrown into some kind of icy cold, as from thoughts of death."