“My Mother-in-law Is A Rude Person, She Swears. How To Deal With It? " - Society

My husband and I share an apartment with his mother. The mother-in-law is a rude person. Swears all the time. I come home from work, I'm tired. But I still try to please her so as not to hear her scream. But she is almost always unhappy. Because of this we quarrel with her. My husband doesn't like it. He believes that I am to blame and should be more patient with his mother. How can I be in this situation?

Svetlana, 30 years old

I dare to remind you, Svetlana, that you married your husband, not his mother. And if you have any conflicts with her, then your husband should be on your side and help you resolve them. And you should distance yourself from his mother in order to avoid conflict situations. Try not to pay attention and stay calm if possible.

But if conflicts continue to arise, then contact your husband, explain the situation to him, let him talk to his mother! Try to resolve the conflict through your husband.

In general, when such serious conflicts arise with parents, it is better to live separately. But if this is not possible, then, as already mentioned, talk to your husband, let him help you sort out all this!

Boris Novobozhkin answers readers' questions