Hello dear psychologist! My profession is a hairdresser at home. I am a good master, and my friends often use my services. My problem is that very often my friends try to bargain with me in order to pay me less. I cannot refuse them, I am afraid of offending. Although I understand that it is very unprofitable for me to work this way. How to behave in such situations? What should I say? How to mark the boundaries of friendship? Valeria, 30 years old
Based on the text of your question, we can conclude that you can afford to make a discount to your friends, because a person who has a serious financial situation will not make discounts even to his friends. You need to understand that doing business with friends and acquaintances is always difficult.
It is better to find as many clients as possible outside of friends. This will make it easier for you to work. Also, do not confuse friendly relations with the sale of your labor! After all, you are doing your job. And qualitatively. This situation can help you sort out relationships with your girlfriends. Determine their attitude towards you.
You should define clear boundaries for "business" and "friendship" for yourself so that your work is profitable and not a burden.
