"I Met Another Man And I'm Afraid To Confess To My Friend." On The Blackmailer In Love - Relationships, Society

Good day! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. But a month ago I met another man and realized that I was in love. This feeling is mutual. I'm afraid to confess to my friend, because he once told me that if I left him, he would commit suicide. What should I do?

Nina, 27 years old

I advise you to leave your boyfriend. After all, he is blackmailing you, scaring you that he will commit suicide. He is manipulating you. This is a kind of game. And he, as an "actor", needs an "audience", which in this case is you. And when there are no "spectators", he will have no one to play his "show" with.

Most likely, your young man simply does not know how to keep you and force (exactly to force, because he acts as a terrorist, setting his own conditions!) To be with him and blackmails with talk about demonstrative suicide.

But you are a free person and you have the right to decide your own destiny and decide who you are to be with and to whom to give your heart. And your young man does not understand this or does not want to understand. This is selfish of him.

In addition, you should understand that you are not responsible for your boyfriend. He is independent and has the right to dispose of his own life. And you don't have to suffer and endure his blackmail, being around him.

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