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- Boris Novobozhkin replies to letters from readers
- Alexei's strong reluctance to start a family life and have children is a reason to reassess your relationship
Boris Novobozhkin replies to letters from readers
The young man and I have been living together for two years, he is 23. But he does not want to start a family … he does not want us to have children. Alexey prefers to laugh it off, they say, we are already fine, why rush? I don’t want to quarrel with Alexey because of this! Tell me what to do in this situation?
Olga, 26 years old
Obviously, Olga, you have a problem that Alexey is ignoring. When he says: "We are already good," he does not take into account that you feel bad. By the pronoun "we" he means himself. One of the reasons for a relationship between a man and a woman is the creation of a family. And although for many men the reluctance to take responsibility for the family and for the children is typical, the unwillingness to have children destroys the meaning of the relationship between a man and a woman …
Two years is not a short time. Of course, you can define more time for yourself and wait until your chosen one agrees to start a family, but this time can last a very, very long time.
Alexei's strong reluctance to start a family life and have children is a reason to reassess your relationship
It is possible that after that he will look at family life in a different way and will take into account your desires.
