How to choose a man? A question that worries many. Often girls still want something different from their mother or a neighbor, so that they definitely have a different way
Relations 2023, March
8 signs that you've met a soul mate How to understand that a person with whom a relationship began only recently is close in spirit?
Where do the legs of male jealousy come from? Male owners - they check correspondence, put trackers on the phone, control the style of clothing
Is jealousy the lot of weaklings? A man was sitting in the psychologist's office crying. About two meters tall, broad-shouldered, well-dressed. He said: “I ruined everything
Sex right after the first date? Time must pass between acquaintance and first sex. Because not every person can build a relationship
How to please a man is one of the most popular questions for women. Videos on YouTube with such names are gaining millions of views. This is not surprising: many
13 stupid reasons to agree to get married It would seem that it could be simpler: you + he + love = wedding. What else can
How to stop choosing the wrong men? This is one of the most common questions that a psychologist is asked. Only it is formulated a little differently
In many countries, when spouses break up, they persistently try to determine who is more to blame. Let's take a walk on the main psychological reasons for divorce
Rake in a relationship. 5 popular mistakes. Since childhood, we are surrounded by whole sets of rules that teach us to build healthy
Two of a Kind. The story of how shoes helped to choose the groom. When Irina was still a third grader, on the eve of sports competitions
Why doesn't a man want to introduce him to his parents? In any relationship between a man and a woman, there are more than enough reasons for thought and concern
How men turn into old bachelors. Does it make sense to build relationships with them / How often women's illusions are shattered by the unwillingness of men to burden themselves with obligations. Everyone faces this, but some of the fair sex have never been lucky to be in a relationship with someone responsible and serious. Why is this happening and what to do about it?
We are watching the film Panic in Needle Park with a psychologist. A vicious circle of close-conflict relations. "Needle" in slang means intravenous
From flower to flower … Why is it important not to jump from one relationship to another? And it is also inappropriate to be alone and not want a relationship, family, children. So they jump
Theorizing about love is a thankless job. Writing poetry, stories, letters is a completely different matter. After all, no one has ever been able to measure the power of love by the methods of science, to evaluate its “realness”. Let's say the theme is "late love". How does it differ from the “young” one? And in general, what kind of love is considered late? People who have not even reached the age of 50, who have recently experienced the happiness of love, called it "late." But exc
I constantly find myself in a lifeguard scenario, how to break out of the vicious circle? It seems that even those who have heard about Karpman's dramatic triangle
We are watching the film "Chinese Coffee" together with a psychologist. In the relationship there is an explicit and a hidden, two layers, like the underwater part of the iceberg and the visible. Likewise
Gaslighter tormentor: insults, plays on conscience and withdraws into himself. Gaslighters - good guys are sometimes hard to figure out: under other circumstances, their behavior would seem pleasant. But there are more problematic manifestations of gaslighting, such as screaming, insults, harassment, playing on the conscience and other types of punishment and intimidation
Dating by ad: the search for happiness today and 100 years ago. Today, those looking for their soul mate have at their disposal all modern tools: the Internet
Linguistic advice for those who are afraid of relationships. Filophobes must read! The direction is determined at the beginning of the relationship. Then they only wanted
When a man decides to divorce, he rarely does so under the influence of emotion. More often, a divorce is a well-thought-out decision, and the rear is prepared
If you are a little "over thirty", then you have probably heard more than once, and maybe you yourself have pronounced something similar to: "Yes, so that I can at least once! Why did I need it! I will never get into it again!”- and other forms of oath promises to myself never to marry again. But after a while, the vast majority of single people are again puzzled by finding a permanent partner. And here they are trapped by specific problems and fears
I first watched "The Smell of a Woman" more than fifteen years ago, and even then it was clear that this film was an "encyclopedia of male psychology"
7 phrases a man wants to hear from you. They say that women love with their ears - declarations of love and pleasant words are no less important for them than actions. But we rarely tell our beloved man what he wants to hear
You can agree on a meeting, a salary increase, a discount, a room with a sea view - and almost everything. But is it possible to agree on love? Let's try
We watch the film "Kramer vs. Kramer" together with a psychologist. Family triangulation. "A love story has three sides!" declares us the slogan of the film "Kramer
How To Avoid Relapse In A Toxic Relationship, Or How To Avoid Stepping On An Old Rake. It can be tough when it comes to toxic relationships
Abuser-victim phrasebook. How to understand and neutralize the abuser. Violence without evidence and moral pressure leads to emotional exhaustion and
Why does the candy-bouquet period pass so quickly and relationship problems begin? The candy-bouquet period is traditionally called the very beginning
Cheating occurs when something goes wrong in a couple. Then the triangle allows you to restore balance - it is needed like a crutch for a lame
How to remove a person from your heart. "Unhappy love", a relationship broken off at the peak, sometimes it even seems that his life would be different if
“All families are unhappy in different ways,” wrote the great classic. And yet there is a pattern. There are negative love scenarios in which relationships develop, causing suffering, causing pain. Such a scenario is formed in childhood and sweeps with us into adulthood, like a time bomb
I've been living with a guy for seven months and constantly bump into some small things of his ex. At first, I asked him as gently as possible that he looked through all the lockers, all the nooks and crannies and somewhere other people's things … But things are still there
Fear of attachment wears masks: "hunter", "princess", "mason". I would like to acquaint you with some of the manifestations of philophobia using examples of typical
Bad Couple: Philophobia and Narcissism. Failure in love affairs does not particularly lift the spirit and a person without fear of attachment, and only for a filophobe with
Dealing with a chronic liar. Safety instruction of 5 points. Is there a person among your acquaintances who constantly tells lies about everyone and everything? Or maybe you caught someone on a lie once, and now you wonder why he continues to deceive over and over again?
I hoped for a person, for his help, but he did not help and, moreover, made fun of in front of many. I am constantly angry from resentment. Only it turns out to forget how I see him again - and the aggression increases, I cannot contain the emotion of anger, it is very difficult to fight
Why is it difficult to get out of a bad relationship or quit an unloved job? Why is it easy to give advice on the importance of not overpowering yourself and getting out of
For most men, the true reasons for this terribly painful situation are often misunderstood. Various offensive words about women are used. Infidelity is very difficult. A powerful blow to men's self-esteem can lead to depression or an inferiority complex. Even if the marriage is preserved, the "sediment" remains for a long time, although feelings are often held back inside